The 3 types of erection

March 06, 2023

The dictionary definition of ‘erection’ isn’t likely to surprise you. Generally it’s something like, “an enlarged and rigid state of the penis, typically in sexual excitement”. No crazy curveball...

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Five things to remember when you don’t feel like having sex

December 05, 2022

So you don’t feel like having sex. Guess what - that’s fine.  Not feeling like having sex - for any amount of time and any (or no) reason is not only okay, but, for lack of a better word, absolute...

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Speaking your partner’s love language

November 08, 2022

Gary Chapman’s bestselling book ‘The Five Love Languages’ (1982) outlines his theory that each person has a primary language through which they communicate and feel love. These five love language...

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Ten everyday aphrodisiacs

November 07, 2022

We’re all familiar with the quintessential aphrodisiacs; oysters, champagne, and strawberries – but what everyday foods, if any, stimulate our sexual vitality? Here’s a list of ten edible aphrodi...

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LBDO’s guide to postpartum sex

November 07, 2022

Pregnancy and childbirth are different for everyone. After welcoming your newborn, sex may well be the last thing on your mind. Or you might be keen to resume your regular sex life, particularly if...

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Aftercare and how to do it

October 05, 2022

After sex, do you ever feel vulnerable, emotional, unfulfilled or far away from your partner, even though they’re lying right next to you? Let’s talk about aftercare.  Aftercare is a term referrin...

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How to use your Essensual Vibe

August 22, 2022

Using Your Essensual Vibe Essensual Vibe is an external vibrator with targeted or broad stimulation to suit your preference. Designed in Australia and made with the highest quality Medical Gra...

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5 ways lube improves your ability to orgasm

August 19, 2022

Lube makes it 50 percent easier for people to orgasm. (Source: Indiana University's Centre for Sexual Health) The connotations of lube have moulded in many a lover’s mind over the decades. The gel...

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Understanding demisexuality

August 11, 2022

Though relatively new terminology and not yet widely known and understood, demisexuality is a sexual orientation that falls on the asexuality spectrum.  By definition, generally speaking, demis...

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